yeah i trust my wife with basically everything, doesn't mean i'm gonnya show her my friendses childhood traumas and embarrassing sexting and criminal history and anxiety troubles and nudes
the worst part of people letting their partners go through their phone and messages is imo the utter disrespect towards the privacy of everyone they talk to
your friends didn't consent to having their secrets and private matters and pictures and whatever exposed to your partner just by talking to u
asking someone their "real" age is like asking someone what gender they were assigned at birth. total nogo. just accept that this person on the internet with a full time job and rent to pay is 12 years old.
"20 years ago, normal people avoided technology and techies would jump on the newest gadgets as soon as they could.
Now, normal people buy smart toasters & coffee mugs while every techie I know is on the verge of retreating to the forest."